Tuesday, 16 February 2010

Burn baby burn

Hands up if you've been stood up! My arms are in the air, and no, I'm not dancing. While it was now years ago that I waited for an hour in a bar for one man to turn up (an experience I've never quite forgotten) who never showed and had no explanation, it still stings when I'm stood up, even when it's just someone cancelling at short notice.

Insecure I may be. And in defense of the man tonight who's just cancelled on me it was to go to the same event but be at a better part of the party with work - a table with celebs and stars. As a friend/girlfriend/date I should be able to support him and hey - take another pal instead. But I can't help but be angry, of course I've not breathed a word to him but inside I'm screaming.

Two years ago an ex boyfriend went to the same event and cheated on me. I was determined to lose this memory and replace it with a happy one - with a new man dancing away and forgetting the bad times of relationships past. Unfortunately I've been hurt again, in an entirely different way but it still shows why single is best.


  1. All I can say is L.O.S.E.R in love and in life it seems... maybe you're giving off the wrong vibe

  2. If you've got nothing nice to say then say nothing at all, commenter above! (You're clearly just jealous that party girl was at the Brits and you were bored on your computer at 11:26 last night!)

  3. Get a life 'Anonymous'- If you dont like it- dont read it.. Bore off..

    Anyway- Hope you had fun at the Brits! V. Jealous xx

  4. Ugh, internet warriors. I agree with Tash and Clare - you don't have to read it if you don't like it anonymous(or waste five minutes of your life typing out a bitchy comment!)

    Love the blog hun, keep 'em coming x

  5. I agree Party Girls totally cooler than you - so if she's a loser what are you saying about yourself? Who spells out loser l.o.s.e.r, anyway? Hope you had fun at the Brits hun - so jealous! JLS two nights in a row you lucky thing! Bet they'll be recognising you next time you bump into them :) xxx

  6. This is so appropriate right now:


    (although to be fair, I can't imagine anything worse than having to go to the Brit awards but if you have to, you might as well take some arm candy!)